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May 15, 2021 at 4:14 pm #504egibletParticipant
Clueless, but innocent 21 year old young man with a resemblance to me at that age: “Don’t you have other things to do? Publishing your issues with dad on my timeline. Keep me out of this.”
Feeling guilty Son – “
I’m sorry you feel that way. I apologize. You would characterize what you read though as “issues with my Dad”? This is really pretty serious, life-changing threats to me and my family. Maybe you think it’s justified? I’m sorry Petter, no none of this is about you. Ignore it. But it has one characteristic called truth. And my words are authentic, as are my feelings. Do you have no empathy for me and my family still suffering 30 years later? Is that the sort of man you are? Or have you not spent the painful time to try to read through it enough to try to comprehend what’s going on?
You sent May 10 at 4:26 PM
If nothing else you can see some photos of our Dad when he was young and your half-brothers and I guess you’re an uncle to my and my brother’s children. Peter, no one has ANY ill will towards you. In fact I’d like to get to k is you again now that you’re an adult. You met me at first when I was not a good person, I was suffering from a disease which I’m grateful to have recovered from. You look a bit like me when I was your age. Hope that’s not an insult. ????
Someday, my wife and I and my daughter and stepson would be happy to welcome you to stay with us to visit NYC. We have an extra bedroom. Also, I’d love to get to know you and you would be welcome to visit our country house where we can ho out on the boat and wave runner during summertime or snowboarding in winter. My best to you, Petter.
David
You sent May 13 at 7:46 AM
I think Reddit has been scrubbed clean, but let me know I can see about making sure it’s all good ok?
I did find this separately, though:
Misguided trying to sound scary: “Reddit is not down, and every post has not been deleted, second of all moving that crap to this website does not solve the problem. Delete the website or we will Get it done.
In all event knowing my father, until everything is deleted and mean totally he will speak only true his lawyers and his lawsuits.
Your shit has only led to bullying at school. How do you think Dylan and Robyn feel about you bringing out you dirty laundry in public.”
Feeling more justified me: “I tried talking every which way nicely he won’t talk to me. No one can see anything unless you’re specifically looking for it. You’re perfectly welcome to comment if you have anything of substance to add.
Wtf bullying? You are making shit up! You and I both know that! How about we switch Dad’s fist punching and strangling my mom and punching and beating me and my brothers for your fake, made up story?
Notice there’s nothing there about that? Just true documents what is your problem? I lived through this at the time it was happening and am still living through it as he insists on nothing less than destroying my family. I just want to be left alone. Perhaps the same is true for you? But this is a public service. Our dad has inflicted monumental, intentional, long-term emotional and financial devastation upon me and my family. In real life ok, kid?
Give me a break about showing what are already public documents. Visit the courthouses and pull the files and make photocopies just as I have and continue to do. Except there’s countless other victims of his frauds. And you want to cover everything up for what? It makes you uncomfortable or unhappy. Then don’t open a book or read history, man. The truth is the truth-and it’s out there. Mike-drop…
He says I’m in deep shit “Like you putting your Prior mistakes and pining them on dad? Grow up
Petter sent May 13 at 10:30 AM
Im blocking you, so much for a realtionship. You only care about yourself. Your 52 and have daddy issues, grow and make you own life. If you continue I will also come after you.”May 15, 2021 at 5:25 pm #505egibletParticipantHere’s Another:
Dylan Messenger
Nice young Man 1/3 my age who I have zero intention to hurt in any way and have not, but still he’s looking out for his good ol’ Dad. Which I admire, actually. I did the exact same at his age. It’s a natural reaction. He just hasn’t experienced what I and so many others have. And I hope hope with all my heart he never does:
Boy: “David, when i search my name your your crazy sub-reedit comes up, I don’t want to be associated with your feud against dad, it has nothing to do with me and you have no right to mention my name or post any pictures of me. Mom has hired a lawyer to take actions. This is harming us more than dad, since he doesn’t give a shit.”
David- “ Wait? What? Dylan man I’m totally cool with you and I’m not sure I know what you’re talking about? There ZERO pictures of you or your siblings.
But this is is not a “feud” or any old disagreement. Our Dad has explicitly stated his goal is the total destruction of me, my mother and my entire family. There’s no logical talking with him. I really tried to patch things up with him. He’s my Dad and I thought I’d like him in my life and the life of his grandchildren. But he took that and just made me feel he didn’t care anything for me and only for trying to waste money on lawsuits where -if you read- you’ll see he makes up things and forges signatures and all sorts of stuff.
Dylan I imagine you are a cool kid and the son of your mother and know about justice. You send me an article where the name “Gouiran” is referenced. Do you know anything about what brought that Judge to say that do you have any context of the human toll of our pain and financial and emotional losses that we endured just so we could finally hear a Judge say those words? Those words are a gift and I’m grateful for them. If you’re just a kid and see the name Gouiran and make an uninformed decision, that’s ok.
I wish only the best for you. You’re my half-brother! I’d love to know you some day. I’ll repeat the offer I made to Petter, any time you want to visit NYC, you have a place to stay. We have an extra bedroom and my wife and my stepson would be happy to host you and a guest.
Dylan if there’s any harm to you, I’ll correct it. My word is nothing of the sort was ever intended. ????????
I think Reddit has been scrubbed clean, but let me know I can see about making sure it’s all good ok?
I did find this separately, though:
Unassailable Boy: “Your are nuts.
Dylan sent May 13 at 9:54 AM
I just hope you know how illegal the shit you are doing is
Me: “Oh man. If anything is untrue talk to me about it, ok ? I don’t no nothing about laws against people putting public legal papers around. They already accessible if you go to the Courts. I don’t get why there’s anything wrong or anything to do do with you??? This shit is funny but if you don’t agree, do t look, I’m cool with that.”
It’s Painful for me to hear, I hope he goes away and doesn’t look here. I do hope that this endeavor may silence mypsychdad and this and the laws and rulings of judges will prevent him from further menacing me and my family. I’m not sure. Maybe someone will look at some of this and try to call this guy out? I mean the Staten Island District Attorney’s ofice gave up, which allowed 20+ plus years more of frauds and thefts against countless victims in Europe and here. I mean he stole millions, bro.
Anyway, poor Dylan says to me the bad guy: “You don’t know why there is anything wrong? He is my dad to, you know”
[Don’t I know it…]
Back to me: “I know it far better than you! And the thing is I invited him to be a part of my life to meet his grandkids. I’m so tired of his decades of bringing lawsuits. I just asked him to let that go and let’s be family. You what he said. First he stopped talking and sent a demand for USD 3,000,000. You know that’s crazy right? You know no one here is rich. I drive a 20 year old car. And I’m happy and fine. Don’t you dare talk to me about being silent while some psychsadist has his boot to my neck and the neck of my mother. You have absolutely no clue what you’re talking about. How about you just read what’s there. It’s nothing for now but you can then consider and make up your own mind and then talk to me, ok? PEACE
You sent Yesterday at 3:14 PM
Petter blocked me then posted something not clever at all on my professional FB page. Is he not like too smart? It was very simpleminded. I could come up with way funnier stuff to say about my miserable stuff. Anyway , I tried to remove anything at all that could touch up you. You could try talking to Emma. She very bright and liberal minded and like you knows not one thing about any of this.”
[Looking back now, I was angry. I will strive to be kinder.]
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